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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 02:24

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

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BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

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People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

No country for ugly people…

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

Do British people say 'biscuits' when they mean cookies and 'jelly' when they mean jam, instead of saying the American words for them (cookies, jelly)? If so, why?